Marriage Monday:The Crazy Way We Met

Posted by Andrea


If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. (I Corinthians 13:1)

Once again, it’s Marriage Monday over at Chrysalis and this month we’re blogging about a fun topic: “The Crazy Way We Met’. e-Mom has invited us to share stories about how we met our hubbies! What fun reading this will be for us all!

In September 1999, my friend and sorority sister Rhonda, told me that her husband had a cousin named JT who was new to the area and looking to meet people. Rhonda explained that JT was a Christian and was really hoping to meet a lovely, fun-loving Christian woman.

Rhonda thought JT and I would be a great match. She suggested that a double date along with she and her husband would be a great way for JT and me to meet. I explained to Rhonda that I was really not interested in a blind date but she convinced me that it would be fun and that a “walk on the wild side” would be good for me.

That night, as I got ready the 6:00 pm date, I told Valerie, my roommate at the time and my best friend, that I would be home by 8:00 pm. My plan was to chat cordially for a little while, enjoy a good dinner, get back home as soon as possible, and put the silliness of a blind date behind me.

Rhonda had already told me what JT looked like and what type of car he was driving. As I pulled into the restaurant parking lot, I saw the car Rhonda had described and spotted a man matching JT’s description getting out of it. I thought, “He’s pretty cute. Perhaps this won’t be such a bad night after all.”

The night turned out to be one of the greatest nights of my life! JT was shy and handsome, but also proved to be intelligent, insightful, and thoughtful. After Rhonda and her husband had gone, JT and I spent a long time chatting in the restaurant parking lot. We exchanged telephone numbers and promised to get in contact with one another soon.

That night, I returned to my apartment around 11:00 pm. Valerie didn’t even have to ask whether or not I’d had a good time. My face showed it all! After our first date, JT and I were inseparable! We dated for 3 years and married on August 17, 2002.

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14 Comments »

Comment by Amydeanne
2008-05-05 12:43:35

awww sweet! what a great story!

 
Comment by e-Mom
2008-05-05 14:35:27

I loved your “blind date” story! Sometimes our friends really do know who we would go well with. Aren’t you glad you took a ride on the wild side that night???

What a cute couple you are in your photo. And thanks for joining us for Marriage Monday, Andrea.

Hugs, e-Mom @ Chrysalis

 
Comment by Connie Marie
2008-05-05 15:22:11

So, blind dates can be good afterall! It was fun reading your love story. Thanks for sharing it.

May you continue to see the blessings of God in your life and marriage.

 
Comment by April
2008-05-05 16:48:05

Praying God continues to bless you and your marriage!!

 
Comment by JT
2008-05-05 20:59:05

It was a pretty good night for me too. Love ya!

 
Comment by Andrea
2008-05-05 22:35:59

Hugs and kisses to you too Honey! Aren’t we sappy?!

 
Comment by lori
2008-05-06 03:05:56

Love at first site! I love it.

Lori

 
Comment by Peculiar
2008-05-06 06:51:25

This is just a neat little story! God just had this so nicely planned out for you. I loved your precious, almost instant fairy-tale story, and your pictures are great! I’d like to search around your blog more. Thanks.

 
Comment by Linda (Flautista)
2008-05-06 07:59:01

What a great love story! I really enjoyed reading it. That’s a very good picture of the two you. What a beautiful couple you are. No wonder your kids are so cute!

 
Comment by Connie Hopkins
2008-05-06 08:38:08

How fun! Isn’t it interesting how God has a different way of looking at things? We determine to do things a certain way and He just steps in and says,
“Wrong-o!” Ha Ha! That’s a wonderful story, thanks for sharing!
Connie

 
Comment by Miriam Pauline
2008-05-06 10:43:18

What a lovely story! Thanks for sharing.

 
Comment by Andrea
2008-05-06 11:55:06

Linda, thanks for visit and the beautiful compliments! My “dollies” are sweeties!

 
Comment by Jennifer in OR
2008-05-06 19:16:37

You two are a GORGEOUS couple!! Praise God for good friends like you had. Sometimes it works, sometimes God wants it to NOT be you that found the man. :-) God bless your marriage always!

 
Comment by Valerie
2008-05-07 06:18:12

I still remember the look on your face when you came home…………

 
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